PLEASE HELP ME. I NEED SOME ONE WHO KNOWS ALL ABOUT SALON STUFF?

well ive got a lady mushtash which is very out standing, its horrible its very very very very Noticeable and i wud very much like to get rid of it. well i though id do somthing about it + i decided to buy a wax the thingg is i dont want to do what men after do. ad i also dont wnt to look like one either, so wud waxing it off make my mushtash prickly and look more noticeable ?